Jan Jansen is a believer for the Power of Stories to change persons Lives. Jan always use Social Media to connect with interesting peoples around the world, He added Photography and Poems as his arsenal for Sharing and Connecting in the digital World. He writes about his thought and in the forms of Poems or a story in www.janjansen.guru and Social Media at EasyBranches.net You can find him on Google+ and Twitter. With Thanks to our Team Leader from Easy Branches
Not pleased with our life there nothing to lose at a reform,.
If there is no variation in our daily life, we may end up in a circle of life where we eventually on the long term no more be contented with it, because of the monotony.
Even if we made because of circumstances an unfavorable decision and are not entirely satisfied with it, we have to make a situation change.
It is better to be satisfied with what we have or have reached, but if we feel no satisfaction in our inner can a turnaround for us maybe the way to get out.
Every exertion to carry out what is going on in our mind to improvement is a step in the right direction, because we are unhappy right now.
Each change we make today can have a reform and a upheaval in our feelings, intellectual we will be sure not enter any deterioration.
So there will first be positive thoughts about before we switching over to something better, if there arise better or be other feelings making our life easier.
Each day there may be many opportunities that await us, but they also must be feasible or good for our life situation, whereby we should be future-oriented can making a decision.
Acquire satisfaction with our decision is a preference and that is not always easy, because there will be no given guarantee for our vision or point of view.
Everything we do with heart and soul is a pleasure in our life and conceived there effortless ambition, by the impulsiveness from our inner driving force and motive.
Therefore, is no shot always wrong, in which the conclusion speaks volumes for every sensible citizen so we have to push through every tangible perfection in future.
If we now continue with what we are not happy or can give us happiness, and must do so for years to come, we actually not have to thinking, but know that we have to change.
Maybe its a difficult decision, but if we do not answer to the inner of ourselves, we will never have its satisfaction and it will making our life can be hell.
All negative adverse events that we encounter in our lives we can only change by taking positive steps have in common with perseverance for ourself.
Or if we think it does not fit into our lifestyle than directly say goodbye for leaving, let it belong to the past and going continue work on an improving future.
Unfortunately, we are no magicians and not every change is an improvement, so we must continue to think carefully before we change.
Also have no doubt if we made the wrong decision, because then we must changing again till we find the blessedness.
The inference is that we own the strings in our hands for to decide a decision, if this way of life both positively and negatively knowing that this giving us the bliss we deserve.
Luckily we will be intelligent enough to take the right step with a positive godsend and all negative circumstances exile out of our life.
If we are not pleased with our life there nothing to lose at a reform, be wise do not stay stuck in this lifecycle.
Sometimes a change in our life can bring us happiness, for to accomplish improvement to felicity with rehabilitation from our inner peace.
Support a elect person respectful and not turn our backs.,
Life does not have the same significance for some of us, where words were not converted into action or not consummated upon the act as the agreed we made.
At a serious ,,,,,,, relationship or friendship should compliance from respect and admiration for this person, but many ringing the bell and let us hear another sound.
They show a behavior manner that have nothing to do with a close friendship, but rather belongs to the screening and assessment of their own interests.
They have in their mind a completely different usefulness on the significance of sympathy in a friendship or ……. relationship and only want to make use of the opportunity.
Search or want to encounter their victims on their way to obtain a benefit on each person, what absolutely nothing have to do with ……. relationship or friendship.
Friends make with each other money not to each other that has only a business side and can be harmful to the ……. relationship or friendship.
We also can meet someone in business and this can result in a …….. relationship or companionship, friendship, but it’s arise of mutual interests and advantages.
Friendship among respecting individuals they will earn no money to each other but do together and share each earned currency or share any benefit together.
Make time free for each other if there are problems arise and will jointly solve with all the support that is needed but not requiring their own but common interest.
Because of the closeness solidarity and sincerity towards each other get there moments where they grieve, cry and exuberant laugh together where every common difficulty will be dissolved as adults.
Support a elect person respectful and not turn our backs, that’s their motto where silly talk have no value and they as a tower of strength assist one another.
If we our own aware of it, that good health and having from ……. relationships or friendships have more value to our inner pecuniary or valuable resources.
Persons who possess the characteristics to use others for their own benefit are not friends or ……. relationship, but simply acquaintances to fulfil for personal or business interests.
Because, we not want that our heart be aggrieved, because we emotionally and instinctively have chosen and let appear the wrong person.
Giving reason: that love can give to us unsurpassed inner damage.
Real Friends ……. relationships always stand behind us and we need not worry that they will stabbing a knife in our backs.
Trustworthy behaviour or statements are simply too violated.,
Trustworthy behaviour or statements are simply too violated
Why some people appear themselves other than they are inner, is a mystery, but an affirmation that they clearly know the difference between good and evil.
Something say, promise or do and we are unable to comply it in deeds and justify, is to let the sun shine in the minds of others, while heavy rain or storm is coming.
In this way, we will be unable to build up trusted relationships or friendships, but throw our own windows in by dishonest statements and behavior.
No one is born wicked, but poorly educated, made or we create our own bad behavior or conduct line, everything from an honest heart will be respected or abused.
Everything is up to ourselves and having the intelligence for making adjustments to what we have learned or showed the environment in our youth.
That are our basic examples which we thought so heard in a decent life, which is in our memory and determines thinking and future attitude.
Our youth and upbringing with education decided for the most part the behaviour and way of thinking with our mindset that we ourselves can adjust afterwards.
The past does not come back, and every batty second also no more, everything is after sixty seconds ticking one minute history.
So learn from our mistakes and about the people who have abused us there, because to achieve the benefits with it for themselves.
Through years and life experiences we become mature and encounter the contrast between fairness and unfairness.
By sincerity and a good countenance towards others with proud and respect will be our inner soul one area of peace and tranquility.
This allowing us to have a satisfied and proud feeling when we are respected by others as a honest citizen.
Often this will be different but our mirror image is a witness, so be honest and come our spoken words and deeds after, so that we can look everybody straight in the eyes.
Making promises is something we give our word and a deal is a deal or a promise is a promise , in particular we must comply with the proverb “make a promise makes us guilty” by not following up.
Nobody wants to have debts it will absently scattered our life with constant thoughts about it and gives us a bad impression with feelings.
Not fulfill promises is vision loss and inner contempt of respect and will bring the loss of confidence what will spread quick from mouth to mouth.
There will be always people who also abuse this and do something wrong to others and start spreading also bad news about that person, but time and experience will purify it, because a fox not unlearns his pranks.
There will always be unforeseen things happen that we can not keep our words, but that can be explained in a communication concept with understanding from both sides.
But awareness making promises and then break to enrich themselves is a fraud, scam and abuse of someone’s personality.
These people should be ashamed to use others and give them personally inner pain through spoken words or deeds and not complying, because of to be an hypocrisy.
Trustworthy behavior or statements are simply too violated, but the respectful citizens take every responsibility to themselves.
And they know the inner difference between rain and sunshine, like to give and see sunbeams into others heart.
It can happen in our life without we ever thought or wished it to ourselves.
But when we dream about particular needs there are so many ways to accomplish that if we continue to persevere and not give up for our goal.
Learned or studies tracking brings the wisdom to us, which we are theoretically informed, but practical experience shows the reality to us.
For almost everything there is a solution and a redemption for a obtained solution.
Everything we own self-knowledge or wealthy, increases our possibilities to make faster decisions that can provide the great benefits.
Giving to others the leadership or give something out of our hands, this is losing control over the correct trajectory for reaching the best results.
So we have to stay everywhere near relevant where we are involved with, even though it sometimes seems for them as if we are not there, because trust is good but control is better.
If we think about it logically, we will come to the conclusion that the saying “every man for himself and God for us all” has a great influence on mankind.
A good example is when we open the door of a taxi in our own country or abroad for a ride, it’s the distance the price determined on the taxi meter.
Whereby undoubtedly is not reflected thought by the driver to take the shortest route, but it’s going to be a fun city tour to arrive at our final destination.
And a taxi without taximeter this driver will do everything to be there as soon as possible with the shortest route, experiences will teach us that after hundreds of taxi rides.
Therefore doctrine of change through experience, study everything and knows what can happen to win the best price and time to achieve something.
Sometimes we need a guardian angel to unharmed get out of certain situations, but in many cases we ourselves are responsible for it.
Our decision will be decisive in most cases and by not to intervene in time when unauthorized events happen can it only deteriorate instead of is a furthest real honor.
Nothing is as changeable as our own lives by unexpected situations, but the finding is that we often have the strings in our own hands and it surrendered to a problem cases.
Outside influences determine our inner sensitivity, know well what gives us a positive or negative stimulus at our state of mind.
Many forget that we have no future without helping hand.
Have mercy and help us please from the emergency with all our difficulties?
When we hear this question and must answer we might end up in a future situation what will unresolved.
By shame and to be silent probably it has already become far too big problem or we be a victim involved in a gang of crooks.
Or a loyal friendship has changed, because of calamity in a drama where respect no more is order of the day.
It all seemed so interesting and there was everything promised and offered for a better future, but today it appears to have been all semblance and all talks only air.
Their difficulties there must now directly come a solution and be controlled before they can continue with their customised lifestyle weather and can take new steps.
Whereby they have for themselves a state of affairs created almost no way out has and where they have become self distraught to find solutions.
Mentally they begin to be vulnerable and a wreck, because of the previously adopted attitude of hubris and thus now by their own actions were routed in this with no way back.
They notice that without ammunition (pecuniary or other powers) they are no longer interesting as midpoint or become unimportant for certain persons or paying institutions.
What gives a sense or that everyone who was at first so friendly and cooperative, now made a turnaround and have turned against them with certain demands.
If we not stand alone for it, but as a group or team and can act united we stand stronger in our shoes and can or should we solve it together.
Those who arrive faster in difficulty realised rather not so good and went for self-interest and egoism by hubris and got a message.
Which was, when everything goes well to fix everything and observe with a positive outcome, even with the people around us until the downside occurs.
Thus short-sighted thinking is for foolish among us, because hopefully is our life lasts longer than only today and the future is more important than this day.
Unite with friends or business associates gives power and thus we can help each other in harrowing times, because everyone has their own specialties.
The loner with a selfish outlook on life, thinking to have no need to no one, but sooner or later his nose against the wall and then it is usually too late for a change with a bloody nose sustained.
Natural logic we can follow, but how someone is thinking in their soul is difficult to estimate, especially when they occur their own other than that they are inwardly.
A metamorphosis has nothing to do with a good or bad economic crisis, but is the inner thinking of the human to achieve progress by greed or money-grubbing.
Making money is not a problem as we have built a good reputation where our word has value and show and bring our actions into results.
In everyone’s life there will be money income and are reissued by the expenses and if we can reduce this to lower it than our income, we will keep money over.
Only with words we will not make it in society, the results speak for themselves and that define every event our vision of the future.
There are among us always be individuals in a world population of more than 7 billion people who will not survive independently and need help, while others are becoming harder and be selfish.
We now live in the twentieth century wherewith no respect is more to most people own interests are first and have the matter of course is obvious, just look around us.
By needs and addictions weakens the intelligence and the rules exceeded, because of the wanton urge and desire with no shame.
Nature is so classified and organised that we all need each other in one way or another, so our behaviour towards each other will be so decisive.
Collaboration gives more opportunities with each other because each has in a different matter knowledge and by compensation united working on something can make us unbeatable.
People together with each knowledge about a different topic is an empire of strength which co-act and so dynamically collaborate on their future prospects.
Due the change of humanity with too much opportunism have many nights there long think about, before they want to take this step.
Narcissistic thinking does not help us forward, but no one wait on a bad experience and the time of clock does not stop, so then we lose unnecessary time.
Some projects or personal difficulties we can just never solve alone, therefore, the righteous people on the right place is so important.
That will be the ones who are prepared for everything and know how to handle it.
Because we can all be the victim and susceptible for unexpected circumstances in which we can use all the help that is offered to us.
Many forget that we have no future without helping hand and we are all seized with it.
Love is conquer someones heart and captivate their thoughts.,
Making the first move to continue together and enjoy life.
Make ourselves proficient master and seize and enchant of their thoughts.
Whereafter our mentality will running wild strike the emotions and desires damfool each other.
Everything want to do for be sure can stay together, because our hearts will thereafter covet each other.
In our dreams we see only one chimera, and that’s You with that inner beauty.
Everything about the intrinsic mentality shall be emerge at us in a certain time period.
The truth of our spoken words and attitude will showing this to us in future.
How freehearted someone represented their present feelings there we will together be witness of.
No one has eternal life, but the strengthened internal force of endless love that we have all.
Together we can feel the bliss with love in peace by helpfulness of the beaten join hands so let us join with each other to get a peaceful heart in togetherness.
Like proud couples, friends, individuals or family, lets us start to give an example of a message to our reflection and the world that peaceful findings start within ourselves.
With many concord risible and relax in peace periods experience without too much worrying.
Therewith our hearts well safe disposed to each other and that gives inner peace.
This all starts with a dream and before we know it, we all end up in our fantasy world at the throne, because of the resultant feelings.
Elation will give us the inner feelings by being together in harmony, in a world where no one thinks to offend another.
Just only loving individuals who create unity and want the best for another.
Who only approve a loving setting for peaceful future continuations.
Where are only indulgence and pacifistic thought, so to each his needs can be accomplished by helping another with an extremely meticulous peace of mind.
Whereby it seems that we float on the earth by the temperament that everyone has to be nice for each other rather than despise and want to cheat each one.
In this way, together we can conquer the world and create world peace by uniting us together, and respond generously with each other as one family.
Hoping that each one that can persevere too, because setbacks will come from rebellious or contrarian people by financial interest or by influence on power urge.
Let’s just continue as we believe in it and commit our desire to make it come true as fulfillment by there anyway to start already with ourselves.
Because that’s where it all turning around in life, if one sheep across the dam is rest will follow.
Success was once begin with a dream, then we went believe in and started full of courage with self confidence.
After that it was waiting for the real and then it’s finished to come in reality and after now enjoyed by several people with different cultures and continents.
Love is conquer someones heart and captivate their thoughts, to a comprehensible inner reconciliation with wealth in human knowledge.
So that the men can feature across his desired woman and womans can find her desirable husband on this planet.
At the same time discovered the populations of countries their view both meaning of life so that there is the possibility to meet their faithful companion.
We have our life and work to survive as a second chance,.
Many things that pass by in our life are once only and at that point of time is it our intelligence what will closure the use of this opportunity.
Learning from our mistakes by the state of decrepitude or character flaw is an important showing in a life cycle that involves coupled with trial and error.
Where exuberant happiness and profound sadness prevails can have, by being through experiences that can be heartbreaking or gladness with loud cheers.
Taking advantage of opportunities that we encounter on a particular or precise time and place is luck exploit that every human needs to go up in life.
In our thoughts can turn around anything, but our imagination will show what we can do with it, to make a perfect decision in that decisive moment by seeing the odds.
It is also possible that we probabilities find insufficient and no want to waste any time, energy on it or giving any reply, whereby this deal goes over and will past by.
The made ascertainment is currently so influential, that waiting for a second chance could prove debilitating. because it maybe never more comes again.
But the future will tell it to us, who is unpredictable and will show us if we have missed the boat by our decision.
Personal or commercial opportunities bump into is the miracle of an opportunity to be there at that place at the right time.
Where is offered, discussed or negotiated that matter or personal issue which interests us and where we over knowledge possess so that it can be profitable for our life.
Individual or business is it accurate if we can pick up directly on this subject and react with wisely language or skill, so everyone present knowing that we react with knowledge and understanding.
On a personal self-handedness will occur emotions that need to be kept under control, in a commercial way, we must be familiar with all the information and be able to calculate the precise market values.
Without knowledge of human nature or business acumen, it is almost impossible to step in a dream opportunity, because we will previously be a victim than the further person who receives a stroke of luck.
Consequently, listen carefully and realise out what’s going on at a personal event in our mind or business wise test everything out to the last detail on defects.
We have our life and work to survive as a second chance, which will only apply if we are making the correct decisions.